Saturday, September 29, 2012

Please Stop Kissing Me

HOLA QUE TAL?! I am writing from a cafe because the wifi (WeeFee) at my homestay is broken :/ But orientation is done now and I have WAY too much free time.. I mostly spend it at the cafe I'm in right now and I think the guy who works here thinks I am a crazy American girl who does nothing but go on facebook all day, which in his defense is mildly accurate. Anyways, I really love everyone that I've met so far in a our little program (shout out to you guys if you're reading this!), which is good because we pretty much do everything together, including some scheduled trips to Madrid, Toledo, and Sevilla (YAY!!).

I literally have 50 things to say but something tells me the 5 people that will probably read this blog don't want to hear about all of them so I'll have to pick and choose. Mostly, Spain is awesome. It's been so wonderful living in a place that isn't characterized by cornfields, identical houses, and a Wal-Mart always 5 minutes away. It's pretty ridiculous how beautiful a country Spain is and Granada is certainly no exception. I was in a bad mood the other day because we had been walking around all day, my feet hurt, and I wanted to be siestaing or connected to the rest of the world but was being forced to wander around the city for 3 hours as part of a scavenger hunt activity. But then at one point we walked up a steep hill in the Albayzin, turned the corner, and saw this view:

And then I wasn't in such a bad mood anymore.

By the way, the Albayzin is the old arabic part of town- it's totally beautiful but quite a tolling task to walk around because it was built on a freaking mountainside and instead of normal brick streets or concrete all the side walks and streets are made with these little round stones that REALLY hurt to walk on. But it's an awesome area of town and it's filled with a weird mixture of arabic/moorish architecture and catholic churches and monuments- a true testament to Spain's crazy religious history. 

As far as culture shock goes, I'm doing pretty alright. Believe it or not, a lot of the weird little culture facts they tell you in Spanish class are actually pretty true. For instance, the whole kiss on the cheek thing as a greeting? Totally true. I have never been kissed so much in my life by complete strangers. I'm pretty weird about it too I always forget they're going to do it and then all of a sudden I'm being grabbed and someone's lips are on my face. I guess what better way to meet someone than to put your faces as close together as possible. 

Another Spanish culture tidbit that's turned out to be true: the siesta. From 1:30-5 there is absolutely nothing to do except go to a cafe or go home. No businesses are open, no stores, no banks, no class. Everything here is just SO laid back and my impatient self has struggled a little bit. For example, classes start Tuesday, and I find out what classes I'm in and when they are Monday afternoon... Meanwhile I just got an e-mail from Wooster saying I need to register for classes for NEXT SEMESTER in a couple weeks.. 

The other big difference in Spanish culture is their meal schedule. It is currently 1:20 in the afternoon and I will not eat 'lunch' until 3-3:15. And I say 'lunch' because its basically a 3 course meal complete with bread, a giant main dish then a salad/soup and fruit for dessert. The servings are HUGE. Instead of eating a decent sized breakfast some snacks, then a normal lunch, then a decent sized dinner, they eat an insane amount of food at 3 in the afternoon then have what would be a lunch for me at 9-10 at night. It's a weird adjustment especially since I prefer eating 5 small meals spread out through the day. I never finish the lunch Pilar (my host mom!) gives me but we recently joked about my 'estomago pequeno'. 

Luckily, the food is all pretty delicious which makes it a little easier. I had my first paella on Tuesday although it had chicken and not seafood, but it was still delicious. Pilar made me a hamburger for dinner the second night I was here which was pretty cute because she called it a little taste of home. Pilar is wonderful and I really couldn't have asked for a better host mom. She's probably 65-70 years old and is so adorable. Her favorite hobbies include watching Spanish news over and over again even if she has already seen the same news clip 5 times that day (this bothers me a lot more than it bothers her) and knitting. She is currently knitting a table runner that she has been working on for a year now. I really don't know what she's going to do with it because I don't see a table 8 feet long anywhere in her house but she seems to enjoy it a lot. She has been really sweet and accommodating and refuses to let me help her with anything. She also manages to somehow comprehend/interpret the broken Spanish I speak to her and talks slowly to me so that I can attempt to understand her. The best part is that she has a little dog (perrita) named Violeta. Violeta is absolutely adorable/a little loco but it's just comforting having a dog that cuddles with me on the couch and runs to greet me when I come in the front door (shout out to Eldee, Violeta will never be as crazy or fun as you but she's a good replacement for now). She has a snaggle tooth that cracks me up because she will look up at you with these big puppy eyes thinkin she's all cute but she has a giant tooth stickin out of her mouth. (See pic) 



Anyways, my first week here has been great! The city is still a little confusing to walk around but I think I'm getting used to it and its so nice being able to walk anywhere and everywhere. I'm pretty excited to start class because I feel like a brain dead bum and I would love a normal schedule (I'm sure everyone who's already in class would like to collectively slap me for saying that). 

But more updates to come later! Hopefully this internet thing will get fixed because I'm having a pretty bad withdrawal.. 

As the Granadino's would say Adio and Hata Luego! (They don't say the 's' in almost everything they say which is SUPER annoying because there are a lot of 's's in words and I can't understand them when they take them out- makes me miss my Spanish teachers talking slowly with an american accent..)

*MUCHOS BESOS* 

Oh ya they also really can't say my name because the double L in MoLLy is pronounced like a Y in Spanish so basically my name is like Moyee. Pilar is constantly saying "MoYEE! COMIDA!" 

I walk by the cathedral everyday to get to the Arcadia center! My house is in the center of town which is awesome but also there's an accordion man who sits outside my window and plays for hours every night. Sounds really cool and European but it really sucks. 

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Can I Freak Out Now?

Cheers to my first ever blog post! Never thought I'd be here in the blogging world but everyone else was doing it so here I am! Hopefully my times abroad help with my abilities to resist peer pressure? We'll see.

The plan is to document my time in Spain so I can someday look back on this blog (hopefully blogs are still a thing in the future?) and remember what a naive and uncultured American citizen I was and how this trip transformed me into the all-knowing globalized me of the future.

In 5 days I will be only 3 flights away from living in Spain for 3 months of my life. I've probably been asked if I'm excited for the trip approximately 400 times now and even though I always say yes, truthfully, I don't really feel anything yet. Mostly I'm concerned if my ridiculous sweater collection will fit in my suitcase, if I will I be able to carry my suitcase through the airport without it falling and crushing me, and if wearing a fedora in Spain is really cool or extremely douchey (thoughts anyone?).

I'm sure I'll have my Dorothy "not in Kansas anymore" moment at some point but until then, I decided to make a list of my "Pre-Departure Expectations" of my time in Spain, because truthfully I have no idea how this how thing will go down. So here goes:

Expectation Uno: I will come back back with the ability to communicate to my mexican waiter at El Camps. How cool would I be? No but really. If I come back and I can't speak better Spanish, I want my money back.

Expectation Two: I will see myself in a different light than before. Either more confident, more independent, or maybe even just a little tanner? Probably not that last one but the other two would be great.

Expectation Three: To actually learn about Spain and European culture so I don't have to be that stupid American gringa who pretends to be from Canada. That's not cool.

Expectation Four: I will stop and smell the roses a bit more. From what I've heard the Spanish really know how to live life. Hopefully they can teach me a thing or two.

Expectation Five: That this trip will inspire me to love traveling and to see more of the world! So far my travels consist of 20-25ish US States, Canada, and Mexico. That's more than most people in the world have seen and I feel blessed to have even done that much traveling, but I'd love to do even more. South America I'm comin' for you next.

Right now going to places where I can't speak the language terrifies me, but as some quote I saw on pinterest told me, if you're scared of something you should probably do it. (Which applies in this case but really not in that many cases, let's be honest. I am terrified of jumping off a 200 story building and logic tells me I should absolutely not do that.)

So there's my list. Hopefully I can check off all five when I get back! If not I'll have to rule the trip an absolute failure and that'd be pretty upsetting. :/

Viva Espana, Adios, and cheers to my last five days living in my comfort zone!! Gonna go eat some hot dogs and watch jersey shore. <3